Good Morning and thank you. It is wonderful to be given an opportunity to speak here again and in particular to speak at this time of the year and share with you some of my thoughts about this, my most favorite of holidays.
On the way here this morning my car radio played Christmas song after Christmas song. And that while for me that was a deliberate choice, because I had chosen a radio station that at this time of the year ONLY plays Christmas music, I’m sure that whether you wanted to hear these the sounds of the season or not, it was the same for many of you. Just impossible to escape.
As a Pagan following the turning wheel of the year, I find it easy and I do celebrate Christmas. For me, it is not so much about the story of Christ’s birth, although I do love that story, but more about a melting pot of religions, traditions, and our own childhood memories. Today Patty and I put up a tree and decorate the inside of our house and sometimes if I get to it, the outside of our house. We listen to Christmas carols and join in because we know the words, light a yule log, we prepare a big feast, and of course exchange presents. We take time to visit with family and friends. We drive around and look at other people’s lights and holiday displays. We drink egg nog, spiced drinks and hot cocoa. My wife is a tremendous baker and our house at this time of the year; as my daughter says, is filled with the smell of cookies and patchouli. And while patchouli is not generally considered a holiday scent, I feel that both scents that of cookies and patchouli signify a very special time the year… a time set aside…
For two millennia, people from all around the world from every walk of life have felt the same way. I am not alone.
The appeal of Christmas I believe seems to lie in the union of two modes… types if you will, of the human experience, which I would call the Christmas carol spirit and the undefinable very personal mystical… First the Christmas carol spirit… this we may understand as simple, human joy, the tender imagination… there is a reason why some of the mot popular posts on facebook are of kittens and puppies kindness, the affection we have for each other stranger and friend. The music, the secular songs adapted to a sacred theme and other forms of seasonal entertainment, movies and the like. What a sense of emotion, not of sentimentality, but of genuine human feeling, these old songs, movies give us, as though the folks who first performed them are truly our friends, and we find ourselves closely knit together with these Christmas spirits of song and theator.
Another element in this Christmas carol spirit is the deeper connection many of us feel with the natural world at this time of the year… with nature.
For many people, the charm of Christmas is inseparably associated with the country; that connection and charm is lost for so many of us now, our lives and these times are just too vast, too modern, too sophisticated. But the Christmas Carol spirit is different for it is bound up with the thought of frosty fields, of bells heard far away, of bare trees standing against the cold starlit sky, of carols being sung not always by trained choirs but also loudly… by simple folks with no regard to age or accent, pitch or timing, these songs… songs that have been learned by ear and not by book… they are the Christmas Carol spirit that speaks to each of us on these frosty cold winter days. Winter…
Without the idea of winter half the charm of Christmas Carol spirit would be gone, and most of its mystical spirit.
Because this story, transplanted in the imagination of early Christendom from an undefined season in the hot Middle east to a very different Europe, at midwinter, and because of that the Nativity story has taken on a whole new magic… with the thought of the bitter cold and the birth of a baby born in a stable, with the very real contrast between the cold and darkness of the night and the fire of love for a new born child. It is a powerful story and one that has swept though Europe and much of the world. Within that story, that of a bleak midwinter night, a light pushing through the darkness; when all is cold and gloom… the sun bursts through… returning in splendor, and in our dark world is born the mystical spirit that we have each in our own way waited been waiting for.
Within that, the Mystical spirit of Christmas, we can begin to see, to recognize… that this time of the year does not and in fact never has, solely belonged to christians. And while the birth of a child in a stable on a cold winter night is the story that has won the heart of many for Christmas; it is, it’s universal appeal to the parental instinct, the love for a tender, weak, helpless, child but potential filled child, that is what so many of us hold close to our heart. And this side of Christmas, is the side that is penetrated most often by the mystical spirit—that sense of the Infinite in the finite without which the best of life is impossible. The Jesus of Christmas has no ethereal form, is not a mere spiritual essence, but a very human child, feeling the cold and the roughness of the straw, needing to be warmed and fed and cherished. Christmas is the festival of the natural body, of this world; it means the making holy the ordinary things of life, affection and friendship, eating and drinking and merrymaking; and for me Christmas has been about being able to blend that story with the pagan joy of the Yuletide season.
When I first began my walk on the Pagan path, I wanted to tie all my belief in Yule into just one day, I wanted Pagan Christmas, Yule and the Solstice to be all one and the same. I was not very successful. In time I came to understand Yule is a season, and winter solstice is a precise moment in time and try as I might there is no such thing as Pagan Christmas.
For a while… a long while I really liked to point out all of the VERY Pagan elements in Christmas to my Christian friends and family. And really anybody who was unfortunate enough to have to spend any time or space with me during the holiday season. Godds I was… I’m sure insufferable.
Typical conversation might go something like this:
Me : so do you like this Christmas tree? It’s really pretty don’t you think?
Them: yes it is!
Me: you know it’s Pagan right?
Them: I was just going to put this package under the sharing tree…
Me: Presents are Pagan too! And so is taking care of the poor!
Them: well I got to go now…
Me: but we were going to have lunch?
Them: yeah but I remembered I need to go to the dentist….
Yeah I was that guy.
I wasn’t wrong exactly but I was most certainly missing the reason, if you will, for the season.
I have since taken a much healthier Unitarian Universalist view. This time of the year while sacred to many, is owned by no one group. An internet search will tell you that between November and January, 29 different religions have Holy celebrations and in December alone 14 Holidays are observed by members of diverse faiths.
And mine is just one. Yule, at its core, at its root, for me is the return of the sun, for the great wheel of the year holds, contains… my core belief in the eternal. And Yule is the key… Japanese poet Yosa Buson wrote “Lighting one candle from another -Winter night”… I can think of no better way to describe what takes place on or about the 21st of December each year and that poem certainly underscores why light plays such an important part in so many of the different ways we celebrate this season.
One Pagan Story that I would like to share this morning… A kind of Pagan Nativity if you will, and just the same as many fight over the story of Mary and Joseph and Jesus… there is no one way to tell this story either this is but one: Long ago, our land was ruled by two Kings, who were brothers. The younger brother wore oak leaves as a crown, and was known as the Oak King. The older brother wore holly leaves as a crown, and was known as the Holly King. The brothers each felt they knew the best way to rule the land, and they quarrelled over it all the time. The Oak King wanted the land to be bright and hot and sunny for the entire year. The Holly King wanted the land to be dark and cold and sleeping for the entire year. Both Kings loved a beautiful Lady, and she loved them both. She hated to watch them fight. She told them to share the land between them, one half of the year for the Oak King, one half of the year for the Holly King. The brothers couldn’t be persuaded to stop their fighting. One hot day, when the sun was high in the sky, and it seemed night would never come, the Holly King drew his sword against his brother and they fought. Although the Oak King fought bravely, the Holly King struck a mortal blow, and the Oak King fell. “My brother!” cried the Holly King, holding the bleeding body of the Oak King in his arms. The Lady bundled up the body of the Oak King and told the Holly King that he must rule the land. She took the Oak King away. Each day, the hours the sun shone grew shorter. Each night, the moon rode in the sky for a bit longer. The days grew shorter, and cooler, the nights, longer and colder. Snow started flying. The Holly King could think of nothing but his brother. Finally, the land was bare and dead and all plants slept. Many animals slept through the cold times, and those that didn’t sleep had a hard time finding food and shelter. One night, when it seemed like the sun would never rise again, the Lady came to the Holly King and said, “Don’t despair, your brother isn’t dead. Here he is to take his turn at ruling.” And there stood the Oak King, young again, and healthy, and the Holly King happily stepped aside for his brother to take his place as King of the land. The days grew longer, and warmer, the moon rode in the sky for less and less time. The land grew green again, and the plants and animals awoke. Each year the cycle continued, one brother ruling the green time, and one the dark time. And this is the story our ancestors told to explain how our seasons were created.
Yuletide plays a pivotal role humankind understanding of not only the seasons but how best to insure our survival in times of great stress to our communities… My wife said to me early in this holiday season back around Halloween or Samhain, that she was really feeling the Christmas spirit this year more so than in the recent past, and she felt the reason was that she, we all need Christmas this year more than most. I believe she is absolutely right. And I have kept hearing more and more people say the same thing. It’s been a long year and perhaps our crops haven’t been as successful as we would have hoped for…Christmas, Yuletide call it what you will, is a day for peace, goodwill and the celebration of family and friends. For many, it represents the gift of a child born to bring salvation to a needy world.For others, it is merely a celebration planted in the midst of winter which brightens an otherwise bleary time of year. And for still others it is a time of great magic spinning the wheel of the eternal.
But for all this season… these days offers a time on which giving is a common denominator and kindness is the great equalizer.To know the meaning of the season, one only need experience the joy of a child bursting into a room adorned with a festive tree Pagan or not, under and around which are colorfully wrapped packages of untold possibilities.It is through that child’s eyes we can reclaim optimism for the future… if only for a moment. In the magic of this holy season, the possibilities are endless, the potential unmeasurable and the future is but another step… forward in adventure. For a world torn by war, divided by conflict, battered by economic uncertainty and struggling to chart a path forward through the chaos… of vastly differing visions, it’s healthy we can set aside a time to put away our many differences, embrace those most dear to us and offer good cheer to those around us. With a new year and the promise it holds just a week away, today is a pause in the frantic pace of life that affords us a moment to reflect on what is most important and to take pause, a break from the routine of life.There are many traditional symbols associated with Christmas, and they are drawn from many cultures, religions and times. But they have been woven together over the years to offer a mosaic rich with reminders of peace, hope, love, joy and generosity. However you choose to celebrate this holiday, Patty and I wish you a Merry Christmas, and all the Joy of Yuletide… and a safe and healthy New Year.
Thank you
Peace and Blessed Be